So cool <3 grell is so fabulous! i wish only she got more of a deeper look into her with a back story ( tragic hehe) and more character development but still being the fabulous reaper she is but being with depth. i love her so much ^-^ (fangirl) i really enjoy grell and ciel screen time the characters seem quite amusing when together on screen rather then just repetitive fangirling over a guy character ( with i still like its who grell is ).
"Female mind, male body. She's a male-to-female (MtF) transgender. As Toboso has mentioned Grell wants to physically become a woman, and mentally views herself that way. If we wanted to think of this IRL terms, Grell would be a pre-op transgendered woman. I've known several trans people and you ALWAYS use pronouns by how they identify, not their biological sex."